Why won't the guys won't tell me how they feel about me first, i always reveal how i feel about them first?

they are as insecure as you are! they are scared to make the first move most of the time. don't believe the hype about guys taking charge...they usually like it when a girl takes charge of some situations. maybe if you want to keep that from happening then you should ask him if he likes you first. just have a conversation with him on the phone and out of nowhere maybe just be like...hey do you like me?----- and if he doesn't answer then just say... well i like you so that's why im asking. try that : )